I am sick of the way you are.

People say that, no matter how people treat you, no matter what people say to you, don't ever let them change you.

But, are you sure that is true?

Let me say this, people may say things to you; the cruel or the nice ones, people may treat you right, or wrong. And people may try to change you.
It's either they want you to be better or worse.

They could say cruel things that could hurt every inch of your flesh, they could mock and insult you untill you bleed and they would leave scars there. But, maybe they are just right. Maybe you should change.

(People say, there are two types of person in this world. But what I say is, there are three types of person in this world.)

For example,
When people say shit things about you.

(First type) You could just cry and blame everything on yourself, your parents, your God, your life, the people who love you. You would be blind, couldn't think clearly and straight, you would just hurt yourself even more by echoing their words inside your head until you see everything more blurry. You don't want to do anything in this world, you don't want to be here anymore, you just want to start it all over again but you don't know how. All you want to do is to dissapear or go away, start a new life and never comeback. But you don't know how. You're lost.

Or

(Second) You are listening every single thing they are saying. You absorb they words but still filter which is good, or bad for you. You try to find what's wrong, you always try to fix the wrongs. You try to change, not to please them, but to please your own self. You know how to be better, you know really well that those who critize you, are the ones who build you. You don't blame on other people nor your own self. You don't blame on anything. You skip the 'blaming part'. You just go through to the 'fixing part'. You fix yourself. You are an independent person. Nobody can break you down, and nobody can fly you high. Nobody, but your own self.

Or

(Third, the most annoying ones, i think lol) You wouldn't hear them saying, you would block your ears with your own complements. You don't want to read the critics, you always say that they are wrong, that you can't be wrong, thay you are really right everything else seems wrong. You always say, "don't let them change you, you are who you are, just be yourself" repeatly inside your head. Even though you are the one who's wrong, you always think you are the right-est one. Even though other people are trying to fix you, you sweep them off with your vanity. You are blind. You are climbing your own hill. You think you are high enough to see the entire world. But the truth is, you are not. You are still on the ground. On the lowest ground.

You think people are forcing you to change, you think the 'you' you are being right now is the very best of 'you'. But you know what? Criticts are the ones that can change you, into something better. They may insult you, mock you and say bad things about you. But if you just open up your mind, get down from your (you think) highest peak, and listen. Maybe they are right. Maybe they are not haters. Maybe the are just people who want to see the better you. Maybe you are just wrong.

Maybe I'm wrong, but I kinda love telling my opinion.
So, I'm gonna tell you this,
You can't always be yourself. People change, you change, I change. Sometimes, changing is the beautiful part of life that can bring colors into your blackandwhite paper.

We have to change.

You can't always be that child who cries when somebody takes his/her candy. You can't always be the one who sucks your Mom's breast, right?

If changing can make you better,

then change.